You don’t have to stop talking to your loved ones, but how you do that might change a little when they’re living with Dementia. Here are some top tips to help you get the most out of your conversations and create those meaningful moments of connection.
Keep it simple
Use short, clear sentences and speak slowly. Avoid complex explanations and focus on one idea at a time.
Be Patient
Allow extra time for responses and avoid interrupting. A little patience can reduce frustration for both you and your loved one.
Stay Calm and Positive
Maintain a calm demeanor and use positive body language. A smile and gentle touch can go a long way.
Repeat and Rephrase
If your loved one doesn’t understand, repeat or rephrase your statement. Sometimes, using different words can make a difference.
Use Visual and Sensory Cues
Show rather than tell. Demonstrate actions or use pictures to communicate more effectively.
Limit Distractions
Choose a quiet environment for conversations to minimise distractions and help your loved one focus.
Listen Actively
Show genuine interest in what they say. Nodding, maintaining eye contact, and responding appropriately can validate their feelings.
Validate Their Feelings
Acknowledge their emotions and offer reassurance. Avoid dismissing their feelings, even if their perceptions seem inaccurate.
Break it down
When giving instructions, break tasks into simple, manageable steps to avoid overwhelming them.
Be Consistent
Use familiar words and phrases. Consistency in your communication style can help them feel more secure.
